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Barry Michael Kay, Jr.

December 31, 1973 - October 30, 2023
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Thomas McAfee Funeral Homes
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Miller and Connie Bogan
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Taryn Atkins
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Lisa Granger
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Tonya Harrington
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Cindy Veninga
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Gordon Smith
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Cindy Robinson
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Private services will be held at a later date.

Kevin W. Grant left a message on December 5, 2023:
We are just finding out about the loss of Barry. He worked for my wife and I at Zia Taqueria in Charleston. He quickly became our favorite employee and a close friend, which usually does not happen. He was gracious and kind and always made everyday better. You will forever be loved and missed.
Miller and Connie Bogan left a message on November 27, 2023:
Our prayers are with you and your family. Love you BK.
Misti Williams left a message on November 14, 2023:
Miss you Barry u are an was a very good friend an u will be deeply missed by alot of people we lost one of the lights in this world I remember us watching twin peaks together an charmed when we lived together much love an peace to u I give condolence to the ones who was there for u an Ur family u was a light..
Taryn Atkins left a message on November 14, 2023:
Miss you so much, B! Keep expecting you to call. So many memories over so many years! Life will never be the same without you. Love you.
Naomi left a message on November 13, 2023:
What a wonderful celebration of Barry's life today. Sometimes the family we choose is the family that knows and loves us best. You will be missed and remembered Barry. Rest easy. 🤍
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Georgia Salley-oliver left a message on November 7, 2023:
Thank you for the years of wise advice and introducing me to movies that have become my all time favorites. You were a big part of my family and a positive influence in my life. I love you and miss you.
Kirtley Baez left a message on November 6, 2023:
Barry, you are forever in our hearts. You came into this world and you lit up so many people’s lives. We will always be your family and remember the wonderful, caring and hilarious person that you were. We all love you you crazy man! -Love your Tipsy Family ❤️
Granger Russo left a message on November 5, 2023:
God Bless you all. May he Rest In Peace.
Patrick Browning left a message on November 4, 2023:
BK, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Lisa Granger left a message on November 4, 2023:
Your clever wit, dark humor, contagious laughter and boisterous scoff for the world will be missed. You were a big part of my family for many years. All the fun on Woodbine, the ghost that ACG would talk to and the Big, White Truck rides!! So much fun! You often made us us smile. RIP
Rebecca Salley left a message on November 3, 2023:
Barry is more than a great friend. He is a brother to me and an uncle to my girls. He was always willing to humour us. In the photo we gifted him an eyeglass chain so he wouldn’t lose or sit on his readers. He is loved and will forever be in our hearts.
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Tonya Harrington left a message on November 3, 2023:
I’m so very sorry.
Deane Hines left a message on November 3, 2023:
BK I am so terribly sorry to hear this. Know I am praying for you and your family!! Love you!!❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Sally Warwick Pauley left a message on November 3, 2023:
Oh, BK, I am so sorry! My heartfelt condolences to you and family for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cindy Veninga left a message on November 3, 2023:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your family.
Gordon Smith left a message on November 3, 2023:
So very sorry to hear about your loss. "BK"........you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 😔
Cindy Robinson left a message on November 2, 2023:
Prayers for you sweet Julie🙏🏼
Kathleen Jennings left a message on November 2, 2023:
Sending deep sympathy in this great time of sorrow.
Jennifer left a message on November 2, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Love you guys
Thomas McAfee Funeral Homes left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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