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Benjamin Waldrep Anderson II

August 25, 1951 - May 16, 2015
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Benjamin Waldrep Anderson II, died peacefully on May 16, 2015, after a five-year battle with lung cancer. Born in Edgefield, SC on August 25, 1951, he was the son of the late Joe F. Anderson, Sr. and Carmen Wilkerson Anderson. Ben had a wide circle of friends and family, all of whom were blessed byContinue Reading

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jeff siepe left a message on June 4, 2015:
So very sorry to hear of Ben's passing. It was my honor to play corner to his safety. He was always there to cover up for my mistakes. He was told he was to small to slow to play and having to be a walk on to prove the true measure of a man, the size of his heart. He was a leader and the soul of our defensive back squad for the four we played together. Glory is fleeting but honor lives forever. I loved this man #25Jeff Siepe 42 go Tigers!
jeff siepe left a message on June 4, 2015:
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James Matthews left a message on May 27, 2015:
Joe, Greg, Jeff,So very sorry to learn of Ben's passing. I grew up in Lake City next door to your Aunt Johnsie. She took me to my first Clemson game and Ben was my first favorite tiger player as a child. My prayers are with your family.
Neil Simons left a message on May 25, 2015:
I had the privilege of meeting Ben over the weekend he was inducted into Clemson's Athletic Hall of Fame. I attended Clemson a few years after Ben graduated, but I knew of him and his reputation. It was such an honor to spend a time with him. He gave an incredible acceptance speech the night he was inducted and I could tell after knowing him for just a few hours what a special person he was. He really made a huge impression on me. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Ben's family and friends. He'll be missed for sure, but never forgotten. Neil Simons, Class of 1980.
Joyce Barinowski left a message on May 22, 2015:
Joe, Greg and Jeff,All of the Robert L. McKie family send our deepest sympathy to each of you and your extended families. Your family friendship with the McKies has extended for generations and we all value the relationship and memories. Ben's love and contributions to Clemson will continue for years to come...our grandchildren are now enjoying the benefits. We'll always see the run down the Hill with new appreciation. May the God of all comfort prove His faithfulness to each of you. Joyce McKie Barinowski
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Joe N Brown left a message on May 22, 2015:
Ben and all the Anderson boys ( Gregg , Joe, and Jeff ) were / are outstanding people as well as.their parents. They might not know it and I wish I had told him / them that they were all my role models whom I looked up to but I am telling the surviving brothers that now and have prayed to Jesus to tell Ben for me. We all get so caught up in raising our families and pursuing our careers we sometimes temporarily forget our roots. I remember when I was a boy over at the Anderson's I broke my arm when I fell from a tree and how they all rallied around me with such awesome care. I came from a large family so we were financially not that well off at that time but the Andersons took me in like their own and I got to do and enjoy things I probably would not have got to do. The point is the way they all carried themselves with integrity,ethics and care no doubt rubbed off on me and helped me to be the husband, father, and Poppy I am today at least I would hope other people and friends see that in me. This is such a shock to me and I grieve along with the family and all their friends and it reminds me to live my life to the fullest because we are all mortal. I have written a lot about me here but if you examine my words closely you will recognize how his life touched more people that he really knew. In closing I offer two things. #1 A bible verse from Ecclesiastes 3 that has always comforted me and #2 I am certain Ben is on the first team in heaven so ...GO TIGERS !!Joe N Brown and familyEcclesiastes 3 New International Version (NIV)A Time for Everything3 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.9 What do workers gain from their toil? 10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
Joe Brown left a message on May 22, 2015:
Ben and all the Anderson boys ( Gregg , Joe, and Jeff ) were / are outstanding people as well as.their parents. They might not know it and I wish I had told him / them that they were all my role models whom I looked up to but I am telling the surviving brothers that now and have prayed to Jesus to tell Ben for me. We all get so caught up in raising our families and pursuing our careers we sometimes temporarily forget our roots. I remember when I was a boy over at the Anderson's I broke my arm when I fell from a tree and how they all rallied around me with such awesome care. I came from a large family so we were financially not that well off at that time but the Andersons took me in like their own and I got to do and enjoy things I probably would not have got to do. The point is the way they all carried themselves with integrity,ethics and care no doubt rubbed off on me and helped me to be the husband, father, and Poppy I am today at least I would hope other people and friends see that in me. This is such a shock to me and I grieve along with the family and all their friends and it reminds me to live my life to the fullest because we are all mortal. I have written a lot about me here but if you examine my words closely you will recognize how his life touched more people that he really knew. In closing I offer two things. #1 A bible verse from Ecclesiastes 3 that has always comforted me and #2 I am certain Ben is on the first team in heaven so ...GO TIGERS !!Joe N Brown and familyEcclesiastes 3 New International Version (NIV)A Time for Everything3 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.9 What do workers gain from their toil? 10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end
Peggy Clinkscales left a message on May 21, 2015:
I was out of town and just read Ben's obituary in the paper. I saw him often at the Sportsclub - you'd never guess he had an illness. He was always very friendly and kind, particularly to me on the death of my husband, Roger. He and Roger would always get into conversations at the club, mostly about Clemson football! Rest in peace, Ben! You and Roger keep each other company.Peggy Clinkscales
Jimmy Greene left a message on May 21, 2015:
From the age of 6 or 7, Ben was the ultimate Clemson fan - he became the ultimate Clemson man! I had the priviledge of attending my first Clemson game with Ben and his family about the time we were 7. I remember in Jr. High when he wrote the letter to Coach Howard, and he was so proud that he became a Clemson Tiger! We lost contact when he retired, but I am a better person and a Clemson fan becasue of Ben. Heaven just got a little more orange - fly high my friend!Jimmy Greene
Kristy Cheek left a message on May 20, 2015:
Thank you Leslie for your kind words. Yes, Ben was a remarkable man.
Kristy Cheek left a message on May 20, 2015:
Thank you for your kind words. We both enjoyed coming out to watch the annual tournament. Sincerely, Kristy
Kristy Cheek left a message on May 20, 2015:
Thank you for your kind words. We always had a good time around you two. Gary, you were always able to make Ben laugh. Thank you both for all the fun we had together. Love, Kristy
Kristy Cheek left a message on May 20, 2015:
Thank you for your kind words. Kathy and Charles, Ben always looked forward to your Christmas Treats. Also, he kept an Eagle eye on your home if you were traveling. Thank you, both, for always being so friendly to us.
Ken Campbell left a message on May 20, 2015:
Ben will be missed by all who knew him. I enjoyed the time I spent with him. May you RIP Ben! Ken Campbell
Haynie B. Floyd, Jr left a message on May 20, 2015:
So sorry to learn of Ben's early death. Ben and the entire Anderson family have always represented Edgefield County with dignity and pride. This is a major loss for both Edgefield and Clemson University. Our prayers go out to Joe, Greg and Jeff. Haynie and Cindy Floyd
Gladys Spires left a message on May 20, 2015:
Greg and family,Sorry for your loss. Thinking about you and praying for God to comfort you all.Gladys Spires
Gail Newton left a message on May 20, 2015:
I am so sorry to hear of Ben's death. He and I went to high school together, and I haven't seen him since, but I remember him as a really great guy. From what I have read over the years, he continued on that path. My heart goes out to his entire family.Gail LaGrone Newton
Don Herndon left a message on May 20, 2015:
I played tennis against Ben often. I always found him to be quietly competative. To me, Ben was an "old school" kind of guy that exhibited the type of grace under pressure than I envied. RIP
David G. Mannella left a message on May 20, 2015:
To the entire Anderson and Clemson family. Ben was a true inspiration for the Clemson Football Student-Athletes as a scholar, athlete and student leader. Later as General Counsel and mentor, Ben worked tirelessly for students and the University, and as one of his many mentoree, I am grateful for his counsel and life lessons. With sincere condolences,Dave Mannella Clemson Class of 1982
Danny Timmerman left a message on May 20, 2015:
Joe, Greg and Jeff,I am sorry to hear of your loss. I can remember going to Clemson with your family and seeing Ben play ball. Your whole family has always been special to me and you are all in my prayers
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Chris Chappell left a message on May 20, 2015:
Ben encouraged me with his kindness, work ethic and deeds...will always remember!
Carole Wise left a message on May 20, 2015:
What a loss for all of us, especially his family and friends. Ben was such a gentleman at STHS. I remember a man of grace, dignity, and kindness. Carole Wise, STHS Class of '72
Bob Shell left a message on May 20, 2015:
Truly saddened by Ben's passing, shared four great years with Ben at Clemson as a teammate and friend. We have lost a most generous, caring man whose impact will be felt for years to come. While I share in the sadness of the event, I am truly proud to have know Ben!
Bob Caughman left a message on May 20, 2015:
Jeff and all the Anderson Family,Thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy to you all. Ben has been an inspiration and a true Clemson man since the day he enrolled at Clemson. He provided a life of service to the institution that he loved so much. Godspeed!Bob Caughman, President, Lexington County Clemson Club
Elizabeth Strom-Eubanks left a message on May 20, 2015:
Greg, Joe, Jeff and family, The loss of a sibling is one of the most difficult of all to grieve, as we grew up with them and share a common history. May God comfort you all and help you to face the difficult days ahead and give you the strength you need. Ben was a wonderful man and peace be with him and his family now and forever. Elizabeth Strom-Eubanks,Edgefield, SC
Sue left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben was a kind, caring, compassionate man. A Clemson man. A loyal friend. A gentle soul. Rest in peace, Ben. You will be missed.
Rick & Becky Wyatt left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben was a great man and was admired by all. It as a pleasure and privilege to know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ben and his family. Rick and Becky Wyatt .
RICHARD H GILSTRAP left a message on May 19, 2015:
So sorry... a great teammate and Clemson gentleman!Rick GilstrapClemson '72Lexington, SC
Paul Landers, Jr. left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben was a very distinguished and admired individual; it was a priviledge knowing him. -Paul Landers, Jr.
Patsy Brown left a message on May 19, 2015:
So sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.
larry hough left a message on May 19, 2015:
I am so saddened to hear this news . I really admired Ben and he had an unbelievable drive to succeed in life as a role model , doing the right thing , and always a kind spirit ! He was someone I always wanted to be like . Such a great human being !
JERRY SMITH left a message on May 19, 2015:
I played midget football with Ben growing up in Edgefield, he has always been an outstanding athlete and a great person. My thoughts and prayers go out to Joe, Jeff, Greg and the family.Respectfully,Jerry T. Smith
Janice Winn Riley left a message on May 19, 2015:
So sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
James Ray left a message on May 19, 2015:
I grew up down the street from Ben and Joe his older brother and Greg his younger brother. We played baseball in their back yard just about every Saturday. His dad, Joe Sr. had a fenced backstop and tires dug in the ground for the bases. I also played football with both Ben and Joe at Strom Thurmond. I will treasure these memories forever. To all the family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Respectfully, James C Ray.
Jack King left a message on May 19, 2015:
So sad to hear of Ben, a fellow Tiger's passing. He was known as a fine person and a true Clemson alumnus and fan. I pray for peace for his family, as I know he will be missed. Jack King Class of 70.
Hugh Morgan left a message on May 19, 2015:
My deepest sympathy to the Anderson Family. Ben was greatly respected in the Edgefield area and a great role model for so many. He loved his Clemson and was so admired by all there too. He will surely be missed .Hugh Morgan
Eddie Strom left a message on May 19, 2015:
Joe, Greg,Jeff has lost a brother and the Clemson Nation has lost a great man.RIP my good friend Ben.Greg you are in my prayersYour best friend,Eddie Strom
Ed Norris left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben was a special man! I am fortunate to call him a friend! Joe, I offer thoughts and prayers to you and your family!
Dianne Hillman left a message on May 19, 2015:
My sympathy and prayers to the Anderson family in the loss of your loved one, Ben. May God's peace comfort you through this difficult time.
Charlie Speight left a message on May 19, 2015:
I was a year behind Ben at STHS. He was a role model student, athlete and human being. His legacy will be is kindness and quiet gentility. A real man in every definition of the word.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Charles Joiner left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben was a kind neighbor. We send or prayers to all those who loved him and will miss him dearly. May he rest in peace in God's Kingdom. May his memory be eternal. We are sorry we will miss the viewing and funeral as we are now in Athens Gr.Kathy and Charles Joiner
Buddy Watkins left a message on May 19, 2015:
Ben and I played football together at STHS, were classmates at Clemson and worked together at Clemson for many years. I will miss our friendship greatly.Buddy Watkins, Hartsville SC
Bonnie Morris left a message on May 19, 2015:
We have wonderful memories of Ben and his whole family. They were great football fans, and my husband enjoyed being his FB Coach at STHS. He is a true example of a fighter, on the field and in life. He gave it his best. Gone too soon!!Hubert and Bonnie Morris
Beverly Huiet Burch left a message on May 19, 2015:
Joe, Greg and Jeff, I was so saddened to just read about Ben's death. Deepest sympathy is extended to each and everyone of you. Praying God wraps his arms around you and comforts you.Beverly Huiet Burch
Ann Hammond Chambers left a message on May 19, 2015:
May God bless and keep your family in his loving Grace during this time of sadness. Family of Vincent A and Marguerite C Hammond, Edgefield SC
Neal and Sue Brown left a message on May 19, 2015:
Neal And Sue Brown lit a candle in memory of Benjamin Waldrep Anderson II
Mike Sherman left a message on May 19, 2015:
My prayers are with Ben and Family, I new him for a short time, I met him throughhis good friend Jimmy Ness. What a truly terrific man he was, I wish I new himlonger.
Leslie Weirmeir left a message on May 19, 2015:
I am so very sorry to hear of Ben's passing. He was a remarkable man and wonderful partner to dear Christy. You are in my prayers and God bless you all in this sad time.
James Williamson left a message on May 19, 2015:
At STHS I was one year behind Ben. At that age he tried to mentor us. He was mature beyond his age. He will be remembered and missed.
paul aaron left a message on May 18, 2015:
In some of the darkest hours of Clemson athletics Ben was a beacon of light for the university he so deeply lovedHe did not sway to the pressures of those who harm the integrity of his university choosing instead to prove that no one person or group of persons were greater than the reputation of his alma mater , Clemson university. I am honored to have worked with Ben during those times and will never forget the late nights at sikes hall Rest in peace my friend and go tigersPaul aaron
Patty Russo Clarke left a message on May 18, 2015:
Ben was "my first love" in 6th grade & I'll never forget his mother bringing him to my house on Valentine's Day with a box of chocolates almost bigger than he was! He always had a smile on his face and was by far one of the kindest and most gracious men I've ever had the privilege of knowing! His family will be in my thoughts & prayers as I know he will be greatly missed!! My love to the Anderson family!
May 18, 2015 at 04:11 PM left a message on May 18, 2015:
Basket of Joy was purchased for the family of Benjamin Waldrep Anderson II.
Ken Peeples left a message on May 18, 2015:
Wishing God's blessings to the Anderson family for your (our) loss! What a great & humble man and a great Clemson Tiger ! I will miss seeing him at our Tiger Letter Winner's gathering's, but he will always be with us !I'll always remember his hearty handshake and great smile ! Go Tigers !Ken Peeples #77
george left a message on May 18, 2015:
In my Clemson days Ben would walk into class the day after a big test with the next assignment already highlighted. While the rest of us cut up before class he reviewed his notes from the night before. He made an impression on others when he did not realize it.
Gary & Phyllis Bible left a message on May 18, 2015:
Ben was one of the most gracious, caring, and humble people that we have ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was one of a kind and a true gentlemen. He will be greatly missed by all. All our love and condolences to Kristy and his family, Gary & Phyllis Bible
Eliabeth Colwell left a message on May 18, 2015:
Ben was one of my brother-in-law's (Bobby Johnson) closest friends.. I saw him at several football games that Bobby coached (Furman University & Vanderbilt University). He was a great friend and mentor. He was one of the nicest, polite & sweetest men I have ever known. I am glad he is resting peacefully.Elizabeth Colwell
Chuck Gordon left a message on May 18, 2015:
I had the great honor of being Ben's teammate and friend. He was such an inspiration to us all at Clemson. Truly his roar was heard and helped shape the champions that have followed him. He was a true leader, a great sportsman and one of the finest people I ever had the pleasure to know. He will be missed by all of us.Chuck Gordon
Buddy King left a message on May 18, 2015:
I will always remember and cherish the friendship that developed during our years together at Clemson. From our freshman year as teammates on the freshman team through the next 3 years as teammates Ben was one of the true leaders of our football team and eventually Clemson University. I have vivid memories of our practices during our four years together where Ben was much more than the silent leader, he was a true inspiration to all of his teammates not only on the football field but also off the field. The last time I saw Ben I was on the Isle of Palms going to the beach with my family, and I kept looking at the people not too far from me. I told my wife, hey i know those guys. so I walked over and it was Ben and Bobby Johnson and their families. Bobby had retired from Vanderbilt and Ben was down visiting. So many years pass, but there is still this connection between people where it just seems like yesterday. That was the feeling I had that day. No finer person has ever represented Clemson University, Ben you will be missed by all. Buddy King
Alison Frazier left a message on May 18, 2015:
Ray and I would like to extend our deepest sympathies to you all. Ben was such a special person, both on and off the tennis court. This is where we knew him best. He will be greatly missed by all his friends here at Riverside Tennis Club.Ray and Alison Frazier
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