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Ileana Posada Shaner

December 2, 1967 - February 25, 2023
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Thomas McAfee Funeral Homes
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Memorial
St. James Episcopal Church
301 Piney Mountain Road
Greenville, SC 29609
Saturday 3/11, 11:00 am

“Celebration of Life” Service: To honor Ileana, the family asks those attending to where beautiful bright colors.

Our beloved Ileana, friend to all, passed on peacefully at home in Montebello surrounded by family. Ileana was born in Charlottesville, VA on December 2, 1967. She was the daughter of Alejandro and Maria Posada. She was preceded in death by her father Alejandro Posada and two brothers, Alejandro and Joaquin. She is survived byContinue Reading

Randy Elgin left a message on June 12, 2023:
Ileana's smile brightened the room! Training with her was always a learning experience.
Mark Stone left a message on March 24, 2023:
I saw Ileana for the first time at an Aikido seminar in Greenville before she and David were married so my memories of her go back a long way. All of them from then until now recall vividly her spirit, her enthusiasm, and her concern for others. Much of the time I spent with Ileana was either during Aikido training or in the social events that accompanied it. There may have been an Aikido World Camp, a Chief Instructor’s seminar, a summer camp, or a local seminar that I attended and she didn’t, but I can’t remember one. Her dedication to learning, training, and performing Aikido with both grace and power have been inspirational to me and, I feel sure, to everyone who has known Ileana and trained with her. I feel doubly fortunate also to have known her as friend, and together with all those who have known and loved Ileana mourn her passing deeply.
Beth Haswell left a message on March 21, 2023:
I am so sorry for your loss. Ileana has a beautiful soul. She was patient, kind, compassionate, accepting, and so full of peace. I will treasure our last walk together, and I will think of her when I hear her favorite Cuban composer. I feel privileged to have known her. May her memory be eternal
Raina Kaholoaa left a message on March 18, 2023:
Ileana was the most beautiful person I ever met. Humble and kind. That is what I thought when I first met her and that is how she will always be to me. Condolences to Shaner Sensei and all the family. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Stephen and Emilie Moskal left a message on March 15, 2023:
To the Shaner family, Emilie and I send our deepest sympathy. Ileana touched so many people and left so much joy. You are in our prayers.
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james vogt left a message on March 13, 2023:
Of all the Aikido teachers I have had, she was the most understanding and most loving. It was a tremendous joy to work with her. To David, my condolences---such a great loss.
Jim and Komal Eubanks left a message on March 11, 2023:
We are so grateful for Ileana’s friendship and generous spirit she shared with us over the years. Our love extends to the entire family.
Martha Rothwell left a message on March 11, 2023:
I am beyond sorry to learn about Ileana. She was my babysitter in high school and college and we spent a lot of time with her. She was a beautiful and special person. Rest in peace sweet friend. xoxo
Telley Leimbach left a message on March 11, 2023:
Dear Ileana, You are a brave heart and inspiration. Thank you for being in my life and sharing your talent and presence. I'm so glad you came to our Course in Miracles group when you were able to and inspite of pain and discomfort in your physical being. We are all the better for it. Today's memorial service at St. James Episcopal church was a beautiful expression of the beauty of your spirit and your love. Peace and blessings as you continue to walk the path of return. Namaste, Telley Leimbach
Claudia McCreesh left a message on March 11, 2023:
St. James emails sort into my Family folder. I was shocked to see Ileana's beautiful face smiling at me on a "Rest in Peace" email. I sincerely hope that the Alleluias will be allowed at her celebration today. Her soul will be forever with us as she rejoins our eternal family of souls. May her family and friends be surrounded by the love that will radiate back from all the love Ileana spread in this world. Peace and love to all who grieve. May you remember her with joy knowing that the amount of tears is a measure of the love you held for her. They will subside with time and you will feel her presence in your heart, always.
Tina Annika Koch left a message on March 11, 2023:
My heartfelt condolences to Ileana‘s entire family and to all who knew and loved her. Ileana was - and is - a great Spirit, a wonderful woman, full of beauty, wisdom, strength & faith. I won’t forget my first conversation I had with her in 2013 at the Yoga Studio in Greenville where we met as it was unusually deep, soul infused, and pure. I could directly sense her radiant Light and her Love and her natural and deep connection to our Source that it felt to me as if I would have met a very old and dear friend. Since then our connection remained close in heart and in Spirit and the fact that I moved back to Europe in 2017 didn’t change that. I feel Ileana is still with us, sending her radiant Light, her Love and her Guidance to us and has transformed her Love into something beyond Earthly measurement. Rest in peace, beautiful soul sister - May your Spirit rejoice in Divine Love and in entire Unity. Namaste, my beautiful friend.
Courtney Peters left a message on March 10, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Courtney Peters lit a candle
Tylie Ann Stegall left a message on March 10, 2023:
May she Rest In Peace and I pray peace for you Jackson and Jonathan and your family.Love always
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John Davis left a message on March 10, 2023:
Rest in peace...
Tylie Ann Stegall left a message on March 10, 2023:
May you rest in peace.
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John Davis left a message on March 10, 2023:
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved wife and partner. I remember meeting Ileana at your house those many years ago. I will always remember her kindness and grace. May she rest in peace and as the Heart Sutra says gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha.
Tylie Stegall left a message on March 10, 2023:
Ileana was such a wonderful warm Lady. Her heart shown through with her beautiful smile. She will be so missed by her family and friends. With love,
Charlie Wolfe left a message on March 9, 2023:
She was a loving person and I will never forget her smile when teaching me the principles of Akido.
Misha Orlov left a message on March 9, 2023:
Sent with love and remembrance,
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Tatiana Pronina left a message on March 9, 2023:
Tatiana Pronina lit the candle
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Victoria Vasilenko left a message on March 9, 2023:
Vita enim mortuorum in memoria vivorum est posita
Don Bannai left a message on March 8, 2023:
Ileana was full of life. The Ki of the Universe. Being in her presence lifted everyone and was a lesson for anyone paying attention. May she rest in peace.
Misha Orlov left a message on March 8, 2023:
Stop all the clocks… Silence the pianos… Put bright bows round the white necks of the public doves… The stars are not wanted now: put out every one.. Ileana, you burnt for everyone and everywhere in all kinds of art you did Your arts were honest and you did them out of love You weren’t afraid of challenge and fought against boredom Gently, softly, strongly, powerfully, giving life to the immovable. Your deeds spoke louder than words and went beyond generations… Ileana, you can place yourself anywhere in space or time… Lots of Love……………………
Brian South left a message on March 8, 2023:
Dear David, I did not know your wife Ileana but can see how much precious joy and abundance of love she shared with you. So I can say her life has indeed touched me through the gracious and most honourable man you have become today with your family. There are not many bright stars like you and Ileana out there who are willing to freely share knowledge and pass on their own spirit, so that folk may experience and in turn pass it on to others just like you both. May peace be with you and your family at this difficult time. Brian xxxx
Maria Landa-Posada left a message on March 7, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Maria Landa-Posada lit a candle
Jill Nielsen left a message on March 7, 2023:
So sad to hear that the world no longer has Ileana in it. She was a beautiful and wise person. I knew her through Aikido.
Gary Bradley left a message on March 7, 2023:
Dave, It has been a lifetime since we have been together. I have enjoyed seeing pictures of your world on Facebook. I am very sorry for your loss and wish you comfort in the memories you shared and the family you created together. My wife Kim and I send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Gary
Saule left a message on March 7, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Saule lit a candle
Paul Woodward left a message on March 7, 2023:
She touched so many lives, always focused on family and the good aspects of life.
Jill Dunham Spear (CM to Ileana) left a message on March 7, 2023:
To Ileana's friends and family, It was my great fortune and pleasure to play lacrosse with the most beautiful and graceful lacrosse player at UVA. Did you know she was part of a team that went to the final 4 in lacrosse? She was fierce, wanted to win, very competitive. But she was also worried about the opposing team checking her on her hands. When you are a concert pianist, you don't want broken and bruised fingers. After a 2 mile run, lifting weights, and a 2.5 hour practice, this teammate of mine would head to the music room, practicing for 4-5 hours, late into the night. 1am, midnight. And bring so much JOY! To all of us. Ileana was so warm, kind, loving. A wonderful friend, a silly teammate. And boy, she was just gorgeous. How did someone be so humble with so much presence? I am devestated about this news...she was the best of us. We took time with her for granted. It fills my heart to see the photos on facebook of her huge, loving, laughing family. I was lucky enough to have know her for several years and know that I will meet her again. Thank you to her friends and family for loving her and bringing joy. With love, Jill
Russell Dauber left a message on March 7, 2023:
Ileana will be missed by many. I know that family and friends will find comfort in each other and the many good memories she created during her time with us.
Sofie Permana left a message on March 7, 2023:
I will sorely missed her. I first met Ileana Sensei at the NoVA Ki Aikido when during my first years in Ki Aikido, and she was so welcoming, thoughtful and kind on and off the mat, and made me feel really welcomed in Ki Aikido family. Our deepest condolences during this difficult time. Douglas and Sofie.
Linda Bartlett left a message on March 6, 2023:
Dear David and Family, Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Ileana. Although we did not know her, we did have the chance to hear her play the piano. Wow—such talent! We know she was an amazing person, too. Certainly, we grieve with you in your loss and extend to you our deepest sympathies in this time of sorrow. Thinking of you! Sincerely, Bill and Linda Bartlett
Timothy S Felegie left a message on March 6, 2023:
Re-watched the "Making a Difference" video. Such a gifted person.
Giselle Herlan left a message on March 5, 2023:
One of my favorite memories is dancing with Aunti Ilsi in my living room to Alina playing the violin in cousin Ileana’s heels
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Paige Sowles left a message on March 5, 2023:
There was not a more beautiful, talented and yet truly and genuinely kind person than Ileana. She was a light in this world and I am deeply saddened at her passing. My deepest condolences to her family.
Cara Spicer left a message on March 5, 2023:
Dear Shaner and Posada family, please know that my heart and prayers are with you. Ileana was an angel for me here on Earth. She took me under her wing in high school at St. Anne’s Belfield when I moved to Virginia from Texas. She patiently trained with me practically every day during the summer teaching me field hockey. She and I shared so much together… clothes, each others chewing gum (already chewed !) and so many laughs and sometimes tears together. We also went to UVA together, and lived together at UVA for a year. She was and will always be such a bright light, full of love and kindness. She was so beautiful on the inside and the outside. I will miss her light, and I pray we will all be together again. With much love and light, Cara
Maria Ahn left a message on March 5, 2023:
My thoughts and prayers for the family. She was a beautiful person inside and out. I will miss her so much ?
Celeste Purdie left a message on March 5, 2023:
Shaner family I have such fond memories of Ileana, her laugh and beautiful smile. She was such a beautiful light in this world. May you be comforted knowing that she has left the world a better place because of her work and her love.
Terence Omori left a message on March 4, 2023:
Shaner Sensei and family my condolence and deepest sympathies. Aloha
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Karen Ellsworth left a message on March 3, 2023:
Dear Shaner Family, I fist met Ileana at St James as I was Chase's K3 teacher. His sweet young mother was so worried about the separation anxiety he was having. He hated for her to leave him. She would have tears in her own eyes leaving him and she made it a point to ALWAYS be early to get him. I always admired how truly loving she was to her children and all the children of St James. Rest in Peace sweet lady.
Michael Matsui left a message on March 3, 2023:
Shaner Sensei, I am so sorry to hear of Ileana’s passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences.
Ed Snape left a message on March 2, 2023:
A memorable concert and CD recording at St. James
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Ilana Gordon left a message on March 2, 2023:
Dear David, Scott and I were so sorry to hear about Ileana's passing. I read her obituary and was amazed by her talents and contributions. I know she was a wonderful woman, wife, mother and stepmother. We are so sorry for your loss. We say in Hebrew, zikhrono livrakha! (May her memory forever be a blessing) Sending you strength and hugs during this difficult time. Ilana and Scott
Cindy Reynolds left a message on March 2, 2023:
Giselle and Matthew, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Matthew described how lovingly your family cared for beautiful Ileana. Blessings to your mother and all of your family. ?
Rob Parsons left a message on March 2, 2023:
It's always sad to hear of someone's death. I learned a few things from her. She was always smiling. She was always friendly.
Catharine McGuire Lombardo left a message on March 2, 2023:
catharinelombardo@hotmail.com Many wonderful friday nights at the Posadas eating pork chops and apple sauce. Much love to Mrs Posada and all the family
Justin-Emmanuel left a message on March 2, 2023:
May your soul/spirit live on. Peace be upon you Sensei.⚛️?️☮️☯️?⛎??????❤️?
Sarah Preston left a message on March 1, 2023:
I am so saddened to hear about Illeana’s passing. We were friends in high school and enjoyed playing sports and participating in theatre together. She was such a lovely person. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends who were closest to her. We are all blessed to have had Illeana share our life journeys. My deepest condolences, Sarah Preston
Nancy Richmond left a message on March 1, 2023:
So deeply sorry for your loss
Laurel left a message on March 1, 2023:
Sending lovingkindness for all who gather in love of Ileana. I am grateful to have had the gift of her brilliant presence & warm mentorship throughout years of Ki Aikido training. She was steadily kind to me, a bright light at every gathering. May that light continue waving infinitely in Universal Oneness, and may all who love her find the path well lit. ~* PiP, Laurel *~
Deb Bucci left a message on March 1, 2023:
Ileana was a beautiful human who inspired all who had the privilege of knowing her. Thoughts, prayers, light, love and peace to all who are impacted by her passing. We are all better for knowing her.
Lisa Larocque left a message on March 1, 2023:
I'm so sad to hear of Ileana's passing. She was always so kind and welcoming to all. Such a beautiful person inside and out. The Carolina Ballet Theatre family will miss her.
Jamie Slye left a message on March 1, 2023:
To the Shaner and Posada families, We are thinking of you deeply and were so sorry to hear about Ileana's passing. Ileana is the epitome of bright light! She and her husband David were very supportive and loving when our father, David Slye, was also going through health challenges and wore the famous "WE GOT THIS" t-shirt. We are forever grateful for all of the love we received and hope to pass on that same support and love to all of you during this extremely sad and incredibly difficult time. All the love and sending you the biggest hug, The Slye Family (David Slye's family)
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Dana Stone left a message on March 1, 2023:
I only knew you for a short moment but what you shared with us as a group will remain. May you be held right now in the greatest of love.
Anonymous left a message on March 1, 2023:
Treasured Memories Standing Spray was purchased for the family of Ileana Shaner by Anonymous. Send Flowers
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Lysa Burke Hutton left a message on March 1, 2023:
I love you my beautiful baby girl… Your smile lit up everyone you came in touch with
Patrick Tarry left a message on March 1, 2023:
Her smile and laugh will always be the images that I hold. Such a beautiful and kind soul.
Melinda Gregory and Alain Ranc left a message on March 1, 2023:
Ileana is such a beautiful soul, lighting up the lives of all those around her. We are so lucky to have been touched by her. Thank you and God speed.
Nikita, Jeny and Dasha Fedorov left a message on March 1, 2023:
Dear David, we will never forget time spent together. Ileana was a truly special person, a complete joy to be around. The notion of her being gone is devastating and crushing. Her sincere smile, sense of humor, and an amazingly positive outlook on life will stay in our hearts as the light that she will continue to share even if she's no longer with us. Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Ally & Tom Bergin left a message on February 28, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Ally & Tom Bergin lit a candle
Stan Haehl left a message on February 28, 2023:
Deepest condolences to all the Shaner family, to the EKF family, and to other friends and family. I admired her as an Aikido person, and as a teacher in that context. Always so friendly and welcoming.
Maui Ki Aikido - T. Reasoner left a message on February 28, 2023:
Ileana was thoughtful, fun, and kind what more could anyone ask for. She will be deeply missed on and off the mat. Our thoughts and Ki are always with you, Shaner Sensei, Family and Friends. Aloha - The Maui Ki Aikido Family
Joni Jackson left a message on February 28, 2023:
Dear David, I am so, so saddened to hear of Ileana's passing. She was a truly beautiful soul and will be greatly missed. Deepest condolences to you and all of your family.
Abel Villacorta left a message on February 28, 2023:
The light of this candle reminds us of Ileana Shaner's bright inner spirit. Her energy lit up the lives of everyone around her and her joy will live on in our hearts.
Abel Villacorta left a message on February 28, 2023:
I am deeply saddened by this news. My sincere compassion to David Shaner Sensei and family for her early passing. Ileana Shaner's spirit lives on in our hearts and minds as the powerful, bright, joyful, and positive human being she was while on this Earth. Blessings to her children and family.
Giselle Williams left a message on February 28, 2023:
Sending condolences to Dr. Shaner and the family. So sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing this bright and wonderful lady through Furman University. Sending prayers during this time and days to come.
William Clifford left a message on February 28, 2023:
I am deeply saddened by your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. All my best to you and your family.
Bob Lavendusky left a message on February 28, 2023:
I remember meeting Illeana at an Aikido workshop in Lawrence KS. I remember her patience, humor and kindness in working with me as a new student so awkward and unsure of what I was doing. She made me feel like I was doing just fine. My deep condolences to the family for your lose. Sending plus Ki to you all.?
Scott Redovian left a message on February 28, 2023:
My deepest condolences to the Shaner family during this difficult time. My prayers are with you Sensei Shaner and your family.
Jonathan Frederick Doner left a message on February 28, 2023:
This is such sad news. I remember her first when she attended my classes at BRKS over 20 years ago. I knew her as a warm, vibrant individual and a great uke! My heart goes out to Sensei Shaner and family.
Myron Ripley left a message on February 28, 2023:
My condolences to the entire Shaner and Posada families. Ileana and I both attended St. Anne's-Belfield and UVa and I will always remember her as one of the most caring individuals I ever met. It has been years since we have seen each other but I can still remember her wonderful smile and appetite for learning in our Latin classes and the beauty at which she played sports. Peace to her and to all of her loved ones.
LaClaire Atkins left a message on February 27, 2023:
My sweet friend, I am just in shock that you have journeyed beyond the veil. I feel so fortunate to have known you from my childhood and that you allowed me to care for your babies for so many years. You were like the big sister I never knew I needed and I will always hold your memory close to me. Rest well, good and faithful servant. You labored long and well and I look forward to seeing you on that beautiful shore in the sweet by and by.
Ginny, Oleg, Victor, and Vladimir Chetverikov left a message on February 27, 2023:
We are so saddened to hear of Ileana's passing. Our family studied aikido with her and benefited greatly from knowing her. She was a patient instructor for our boys and a source of calmness, kindness, inspiration, and wisdom. She could also play the piano beautifully. She made a very positive impact on our lives.
Bob Chance left a message on February 27, 2023:
Her spirit was encompassing, She embraced life and gave us so much joy. I will think of her on many days and on special times.
Celine Boyer left a message on February 27, 2023:
Offering my deepest condolences to you, Shaner sensei and your family. All I could remember is Ileana’s brightest radiant smile that will always be with us.
Mayumi Case left a message on February 27, 2023:
I will miss Ileana so so much. She was so lovely and kind, and I will cherish the time I spent with her forever. Sending my ki toward David Shaner sensei and the family.
Marion Lebensbaum left a message on February 27, 2023:
Ileana was a kind and caring person, always ready to give her time, knowledge, and affection.
Jason Rosenblum left a message on February 27, 2023:
I am shocked and saddened to hear about Ileana Sensei's passing. She was a source of inspiration for my own practice, and I miss training with her deeply. I will always remember her mindful, pointed guidance, along with her self-assured, Ki-full presence on and off the mat. Rest in Peace, Ileana Sensei.
Antonio Munoz Bailey left a message on February 27, 2023:
Sending love and deepest regards to Shaner Sensei, family and friends, on this very sad occasion. Although my connection with Ileana was brief, her joy and happiness left a positive and lasting impression. Sending Ki from all at Rhostyllen Ki Aikido in the Uk.
Mort and Lora Melman left a message on February 27, 2023:
It with great sadness to receive the word of our beloved Ileana’s passing. I was so glad to have recently sent her a song. She will be very fondly remembered.
Alyona Vsevolodova left a message on February 27, 2023:
My condolence for the loss to the family! I always have the warmest memories of Ileana. She was a great friend, teacher and person! She read to us Peace Prayer of Saint Francis 'It's in dying that we are born to eternal life' May Ileana rest in peace!
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Rich Fryling left a message on February 27, 2023:
I feel so fortunate that she touched my life. Her smile on the world will not fade.
Koichi Kashiwaya left a message on February 27, 2023:
I was so sad to hear about the passing of Ileana. It’s hard to put in any words how much we will miss her. She was always so kind and thoughtful. I remember her beautiful smile on and off the mats. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Rest in peace Ileana.
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Bill Dyer left a message on February 27, 2023:
With deepest sympathies she was a loving compassionate bright light so very sorry to hear of her passing. Much love to Dave and family thinking of you all many blessings and fond remembrance's. Hugs and love from Sun Valley! Bill
Hawaii Ki Federation = Christopher Curtis left a message on February 27, 2023:
It is with the greatest sadness to have lost her, but the greatest joy to have known her, that we offer the deepest condolences from our hearts to you, Shaner Sensei, your children, and the extended family. May you be at peace. With loving Aloha, The Hawaii Ki Federation family
Bill Dyer left a message on February 27, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Bill Dyer lit a candle
Terence Brister left a message on February 27, 2023:
Heaven has definitely gained a rare and wonderful angel. I enjoyed hot yoga and discussions about martial arts with her. She made her secret chili with Parmesan crackers for me and my zone partners in the police department. She was certain that I was one of the first to get her husband book. I am deeply saddened but know that she prefers a celebration and fun memories. I pray that her family finds peace and love as their center. May God accept her into heaven as one of his most beloved angels. May she live in all our hearts. There will be many angels learning yoga.?
Steve Self left a message on February 27, 2023:
I extend heartfelt ki to everyone in her family. Whenever I consider Ileana —such a positive spirit— I remember a moment with her on the mat in Boulder CO at a National Ki Aikido Conference years ago. She was practicing a ki exercise with me in which she was trying to move me backward from my holding her wrists. At first she could not do it. Note, I am 6ft and 200 pounds, so almost twice her size. Yet she was undaunted. She asked, “David, I cannot move him! What is this about?” David Shaner Sensei smiled and took her place and moved into me, then moving me backwards. He laughed, “Ah. Do not get distracted by the apparent weight of him, just connect and move right with and through it!” She then took her place, I held her wrists. She smiled, moved in and right through me, laughing, “Yes, that was it!” Every time I had the joy of training with her touched me and I am a better person for knowing her.
Travis D. Stolz left a message on February 27, 2023:
May Ileana's memory be eternal. Prayers ascend for Ileana, Shaner Sensei, and their family.
Belinda Hilliard left a message on February 27, 2023:
Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss.
Felix Geissler left a message on February 26, 2023:
I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Ileana. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
Ed Sherman left a message on February 26, 2023:
She called me Edgar-San. I called Ileana “magnificent,” from first sight in Aikido dojo, to her wedding to listening as she played the piano with passion and talent from another place. The Angels will adore her.
The Horne Family left a message on February 26, 2023:
We are very heartbroken by this great loss. Illena really touched our lives. She always made us feel happy and welcome, especially our kids, both at her home and at the Dojo. We will miss her at the Dojo, but we will keep her in our thoughts and prayers. Blessings, The Horne Family
Carolyn Ellsworth left a message on February 26, 2023:
Ileana and I had one of those rare friendships that, at least for me, transcended time and physical separation. We met through our respective husbands who were college friends. So when David met Ileana, it was imperative that we meet her too, and that happened on our first ski trip together in Mammoth Lakes, California, prior to David and Ileana’s subsequent wedding in Virginia. I felt instantly bonded with her despite our age difference of nearly 13 years. That feeling never never changed and in the intervening 30 years, we would periodically come together on her side of the country or mine and have long conversations sharing secrets with the feeling that we had never been apart, despite the actual passage of time. On one such trip about 20 years ago, Ileana taught me how to fold fitted sheets, something she later referred to as her “secret power” taught to her by one of her sisters. To this day, as I told her on Valentines Day of 2021, I think of her every time I fold sheets. Those thoughts of Ileana are always positive ones, because that’s how she was. She made you want to be a better person by way of her own example of kindness and inclusiveness. On our last visit to Greenville in late April of last year, I was blessed to get a good deal of one-on-one time with her —cooking, walking, talking, shopping, and practicing my spanish. She took me to a session of My Neighbors Voice that she moderated, again showing how much she cared for her community and others. It was a good and hopeful time when the future still looked like a possibility and one which we prayed would continue. Yet, Ileana was at peace with the prospect that it would not continue, and that her life on this earth would be shorter than she had hoped. It was something that she openly discussed. She was not afraid. I will miss her so very much, but the light of her life that shown so brightly—the love for her family, friends and community— will continue to inspire me to me a better person. I will always think of you, Ileana, when I fold sheets, even though I will never be able to do it as well as you.
Mary Green left a message on February 26, 2023:
Ileana, i will always love and miss your beautiful soul on this earth. I know that you have been called for a higher purpose and i am grateful to have known you and learned so much from you over the years.
Ed & Mikki Kilby and Family left a message on February 26, 2023:
In memory of Ileana Posada Shaner, Ed & Mikki Kilby and Family lit a candle
Craig Delk left a message on February 26, 2023:
Ileana was a friend and an inspiration. I knew her for more than 25 years, and although she and her husband, David, and my wife, Carolyn, and I live on different sides of the country, we have had not a few opportunities for extended visits over the years. There was not a day—or an hour in the day—that Ileana was not happy and cheerful and full of life. And it was contagious. She made every day a little brighter for everyone around her, and we are all blessed for the uplifting gift of her friendship. She will be missed very much.
Thomas McAfee Funeral Homes left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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