Joan Marie Hapstack

March 30, 1932 - March 25, 2022

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Joan Marie Hapstack, 89, went home to Jesus, Friday, March, 25, 2022.

Born in Toledo, OH, she was the daughter of John and Dorothy Brandt Mescher.

Joan was a member of St. Mary Magdalene Catholic Church in Apex, NC.

She is survived by her four children, Mark Hapstack (Terry), Sue Bartol (Alex), David Hapstack (Bonnie), and Carrie Smith (Ed); nine grandchildren, Chris Hapstack, Matthew Hapstack, Nicholas Hapstack, Karleen Walters (Nathan), Olivia Bartol, Kara DeCesare (Anthony), Kelli Hapstack, Jack Smith, and Max Smith; and two great grandchildren, Everett and Kenzy DeCesare; as well as her nieces and nephews and their families, whom she also adored.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband of 51 years, Richard John Hapstack, and older sisters, Dolores Mescher and Dorothy Lautermilch.

Joan will be remembered for her steadfast faith and how well she loved others. A kind and gentle soul, she was a prayer warrior and wonderful listener, always curious about and concerned for the person right in front of her. She enjoyed ice cream (chocolate peanut butter was her favorite), dark beer, eggplant parmesan, listening to music, doing puzzles, playing games, traveling, reading, laughing and most of all, spending time with friends and family. As a nurse’s aide at St. Clare’s Hospital in Denville, NJ, Joan was beloved by patients and coworkers alike. She blessed the lives of many through her volunteer efforts that frequently involved using her sewing and knitting skills. She lived independently until her last week on earth and was a joy to be around.

A memorial service is tentatively scheduled for July 2022 in Apex, NC.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Raleigh, at www.catholiccharitiesraleigh.org.

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Joan Marie Hapstack, 89, went home to Jesus, Friday, March, 25, 2022. Born in Toledo, OH, she was the daughter of John and Dorothy Brandt Mescher. Joan was a member of St. Mary Magdalene Catholic Church in Apex, NC. She is survived by her four children, Mark Hapstack (Terry), Sue Bartol (Alex), David Hapstack (Bonnie),Continue Reading

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thankyou for your note. You made a lovely video to her memory. Have a lot of great memories from work and the 2 trips Helen and I to see her N.C. She was a beautiful person. Sorry for the loss but how lucky you all were to have her for your Mom Joan

Mark, I am so sad to see that your mother has passed away. It is so hard to lose our parents. May she Rest In Peace and rise in glory. Dianne

Thanks for sharing your mom with us, Carrie. The pictures certainly reflect her love of family and love of life. She seems to have had a strong influence on others. I love her sense of humor. I am praying for you and your family as you grieve the loss of your mother.

My heart is full, and my prayers continue for you all as you navigate this new journey. Your memories will help you cope each day. I know our moms are enjoying each other’s company as they so lovingly did when mrs Hapstack visited !!! Blessings to you all. GOD has his arms wrapped around each of you and is giving you strength !!! Love and butterflies, barbi oakley

Our deepest sympathy to you all. The pictures are a wonderful memorial tribute to what a fun-loving woman your mom was.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.